I think its got a helluva lot to do with people's expectations of what your answer is "supposed" to sound like - ie. you should affirm their beliefs, comforting them
That may very well be true. Religiots may well be disgruntled when they find the mutual
mastu massaging that they depend on to override their cognitive faculties are not available on tap any more.
Rigil
(ETA: Bugger. I was meaning to say something much more profound in my two thousandth post.

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