By “
humanist wedding” do you mean one that doesn’t involve a religious ceremony? If not, how are we to read this term?
Dr 'Luthon64 and I attended a wedding
sans any religious/spiritual/woo-woo overtones that was held in a large, densely wooded garden. The couple actually got married legally earlier in the day before a magistrate. The ceremony afterwards entailed readings, mostly from
Kahlil Gibran, but also from an assortment of romantic poets and touching song lyrics. The bride and groom both recited short poems they had penned to one another, and the formalities were conducted while everyone strolled slowly around the wooded garden with the MC leading the couple, followed by the guests. Afterwards, a meal was enjoyed under a marquee erected in the garden and the do turned into a festive party in fairly short order.
Admittedly, it was a small affair with fewer than 30 people. Perhaps you can use some of the above suggestions.
'Luthon64