What does Women find sexy?

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Faerie (June 02, 2011, 11:57:32 AM):
The article is a bit tongue in the cheek but with a hint of truth to it.

I bought my sons up with a little saying "Sex starts in the kitchen" - they know by now that with a little bit of help in the house, the world is a much happier place.

http://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/style/listen-up-fellas-naked-man-parts-not-so-sexy/2011/06/01/AGMKSgGH_story.html?hpid=z2

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Listen up, fellas: Naked man-parts? Not so sexy.
Text Size Print E-mail Reprints By Monica Hesse, Thursday, June 2, 2:23 AMA general note for men:


We polled some women. Really, they would like to see . . .

“I would like a photo of a made bed,” says Kathryn Roberts, who works at a law firm in Washington. “I would take rose petals, but I want them on top of a made bed.” And not that fake kind of made, either, where the comforter is smooth but the sheets are a jumbled mess.

“Or laundry,” adds her friend Andrea Neurohr.

“Folded laundry,” elaborates Roberts. “Maybe in a wicker basket.”

Over the years, a handful of famous men — and a boatload full of unfamous, Craigslisty men — have landed in the news for sending women photos of their artfully framed packages. Brett Favre allegedly had a special delivery for Jenn Sterger, a sideline reporter for the New York Jets. Kanye West allegedly provided some of his female MySpace friends with some extra-friendly pictures. There are entire Web sites, aimed at men, teaching them the etiquette for public displays of private parts.

Men! Broaden your seduction techniques!

How about you move away from the below-the-waist close-up? How about you try going naked from the waist up? How about a picture of you, sweaty, cleaning out the storm drain? How about a photograph of you gently caressing the yogurt, as you rotate the soon-to-expire food to the front of the refrigerator? So sexy!

“The refrigerator,” says Gretchen LeMaistre. “That’s a big scenario.” LeMaistre is a San Francisco-based photographer who has worked on the “Porn for Women” series, tongue-in-cheek books purporting to tap into women’s most intimate pleasure zones. In the yet-unpublished “Porn for Working Women,” an attractive man cleans out the office fridge and asks, “Am I the only one who cares if we have a clean breakroom?”

Not all women like this, of course. This is the part where we call up an expert, who affirms that there is a great diversity in what women find arousing.

“There is a great diversity in what women find arousing,” says Marta Meana, a renowned psychologist who studies women’s sexual function at the University of Nevada at Las Vegas. She would never want to make blanket statements about what does or does not put wind in one’s sails.

But.

“But,” she says, if you look at the empirical literature, it does indicate that the majority of women are not as aroused by pictures of” naked man-parts.

Cindy Meston directs the Sexual Psychophysiology Laboratory at the University of Texas at Austin. She is a past president of the International Society for the Study of Women’s Sexual Health. If there is something you want to know about what turns women on, she is the person you call.

“We spent six years of research on why women have sex,” Meston says. They compiled 237 reasons. Duty sex. Revenge sex. Pity sex. Bored sex, engaged in because women simply had nothing better to do. “Of the 237 reasons why women have sex,” Meston says, “not one was looking at a man’s genitals.”

Women, research increasingly shows, are nuanced sexual beings whose arousal depends on context, mood and a whole bunch of things they aren’t even aware of. Men are different. Men do tend to find the equivalent naked pictures of women titillating. When they send women photos of their genitalia, they are engaging in a sort of sexting golden rule: I think it’s hot, so you should, too. (If women also employed this rule, they would text pictures of themselves taking out the recycling.)

“I can picture liking a photo that’s a little private and romantic,” says Amy MacHarg of Arlington County. She could envision a photo of some massage oils, or perhaps a man sitting at a candle-lit table. He would be holding a pan. Because he had just cooked the meal.

Her friend Sara Monsef has a different dream. “I would like to see a photo of a man who has organized his books alphabetically and by genre,” she says.

Now that is kinky.



I love a man that makes eye contact and adresses me by name. I love my S/O in the kitchen (the man cooks well) The first thing I look at when meeting ANY man, is the shoes and the hands - both needs to be clean and kept.

What do you find sexy in your partner/potential partner etc?
GCG (June 02, 2011, 12:47:00 PM):
a man with long (clean) hair makes me weak. it's years of adolesence wasted watching Highlander.
a guy with rugged good looks, not a skinny bugger, or a muscle palace (eeuw). short clean nails, that includes toe-nails. and no snaggy hang-nails. a guy who knows what the hell body lotion is, and uses it.
i dont care much for cooking, but he must have ice-cream and good coffee in his kitchen. and be willing to get out of bed to bring me either.
a guy who can take advice, be it for work, DIY, relationship, car problems. coz, you know, sometimes, i simply just know better.
a guy who can keep up with fashion, but not be a slave to it.
a guy who is still a child at heart, can have fun, and take having fun poked at him. silly fun, like hugging giant teddybears in Reggies fun.
he must be able to stomach watching me eat sushi.
i love geeks and nerds. smart guys, humble but smart. enquiring guys. guys that can debate, think outside the box. be willing to learn and hear opinions that may or may not agree with their own.
a guy who treats his family with respect, but is not a mommy's boy.
Fanboys, Trekkies, Philes.
Faerie (June 02, 2011, 12:50:24 PM):
Guys??? Where are you? What makes a woman attractive/sexy?
benguela (June 02, 2011, 13:31:36 PM):
Guys??? Where are you? What makes a woman attractive/sexy?


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Faerie (June 02, 2011, 13:53:59 PM):
Guys??? Where are you? What makes a woman attractive/sexy?

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I'm almost tempted to smite you.... :/

Gods I'm bored today.... :P

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